December 10, 2008

An Update

Danny and I went to our "last" interview with the licensing worker this evening. The interview covered nothing new and nothing of true importance in my opinion, but maybe that is just me feeling like a broken record. We covered the same material, answered the same questions and talked about the same issues that we have in ALL of the other interviews. BUT if this is what it takes, if it takes for us to repeat ourselves til' we are blue in the face (we are close) then we of course will do it.

The interview lasted about an hour and we talked more about our personal "habits", our financials, our interest in children, what age/sex and amount of children we want. She said this is information that we would normally go over when she comes out to do our home inspection, but we took care of it now, so it will be one less thing we need to cover when she comes out (I won't hold my breath about that).

So you are probably wondering what happens now, what the meeting today meant and what happens next... right? Me toooooo! hahha, teasing. She said that she is going to take all the paper work she has gathered, all the questions/answers that we covered today and write up a report and submit it to her manager. Her manager will review it (ask more questions if she has any) then give her approval, THEN it has to go up one more level, to HER manager who will do all the same things, and then eventually give her approval (fingers crossed of course that everyone approves it). Once we have the final approval, she (the licensing worker) will give us a call to schedule the home inspection. She will of course tell us what she wants changed in our home at that time. We will have time to "fix" whatever issues there are in our home and she will schedule the next visit to inspect. Once everything passes, she will submit everything to the County/State (I don't really know which one) to issue our license.

Then we are officially on the "waiting list" for a match.

She did tell us that because we are in the middle of all the holidays and she does not know what everyones vacations schedules look like, it could take up to a month to hear from her. She said, she will be there working most of the time she is "only taking one week off" but doesn't know how much time her manager, and her managers manager will be taking.. so she doesn't know how quickly they will get to our file. Hmmmmmmmmmmm. so we wait.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well, the great news is that there is forward progress. It might not seem like it. And you might think you are sounding like a broken record, but I believe the reason they ask you the same things over and over again is just to be sure your answers are consistent, there isn't a "change in your story," u know what I mean? That's my guess anyways. tee hee Otherwise why waste time by asking the same thing a million times.

This is fantastic though...you're in home stretch right now... so close, so close! You've done so much already to get your home ready for the inspection... hopefully you won't need that "second" inspection and it all gets expedited!! Fingers crossed... :-)

How exciting... 2009 is going to be such an awesome year.. it's going to be the Manley/Buckley year and I am so happy that you are able to share it with all of us. I don't know a couple..or a family... more deserving than all of you. Love you tons!

RMZeppenfeldtfam said...

Its tuff going back and forward with someone and repeating the same things over and over again, let alone something of this importance.. BUT when it is something as great and as important as this,(as you said) you continue to do it as many times as needed with no doubts until you are blue in the face! because it is so worth every effort.

Showing them that you both have no problems talking and meeting over and over again really demonstrates to them how determined, serious and stable you guys are...and not to mention how much love and affection you have to offer for a child/ren. I believe that they really need to see that over and over to be certain that the couple is really ready and wanting a family.

The New Year is going to bring all the joys to you and your family! You'll see. I am so certain of it. By the time you less expect it (as close as you are), you all will be past all this waiting and be celebrating for years to come with family and friends by your side.

Love you!!!!

Anonymous said...

Just thinking about you guys this Christmas season & praying that your prayers get answered!
Best of luck!!
luv,
Ali